what if you never got the chance?!

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?,

or
Saying nothing and wishing you had?

I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.

Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.

If you do, they might break your heart

If you don't, you might break theirs.

Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of
losing what you already had with that person?

Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't.

You can't tell your heart what to do.

It does it on its own..

when you least suspect it,

or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had,

but that other person was too afraid to let you?

Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much..

for fear that the other person does not care as much,

or even at all.

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of
rejection was too hard to handle?

We tell lies when we are afraid..

afraid of what we don't know,

afraid of what others will think,



afraid of what will be






found out about us.

But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.

Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.

Don't be a person who has to look back

and wonder what they would have done,

or could have had.

* What would you do if every time you fell in love,

you had to say good-bye?

*What would you do if every time you wanted someone

they would never be there?

*What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow

and you never got to tell them how you felt?

*What would you do if you loved someone
more than ever and you couldn't have them?

*What would you do if you never got the chance to say I am friends with
all of my family?

*What would you do if you never got the chance to hug and kiss them?

nor let them know how much you love them?*

A Post-Valentines Post

LIFE ON LOVE

By Rico Deniega

..wondering who's rico!?

Actually, I read this blog from my friend rico's account at multiply.com. I just fell in love reading it. Asked him I'd post this in my blog too, though he hadn't given me his permission yet, taaddaaanng!!!Thanks Rico for sharing this with me.. hihih

A post-valentine blog actually, but it's worth it.

It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why some loves grow and it is a mystery why some loves fail. You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do any more than take the life out of the experience.

Love is more than the some of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its time, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways.

Too often, when love comes to people, they try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift and a gift that just as freely moves away. When they fall out of love, or the person they feel love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was.

They want answers where there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong with them, or they try to get their lover to change, thinking that if some small thing were different love would bloom again. They blame their circumstances. They blame each other. They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But there is no meaning beyond the love itself and until they accept its own mysterious ways they live in a sea of misery.

You need to treat what love brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.

If you find someone else in love with you toward whom you feel no love, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how love will deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are very different.

If you fall in love with another who falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know it in time, but time itself will choose the moment.

Remember this and keep it in your hearts. You don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it and all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it to you. Give it to others who seem poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.

Love has its own time, its own seasons for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it or reason it into staying. If it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your love, there is nothing you can do and nothing you should do. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. If you keep your heart open, it will surely come again…