Why do we miss a person?
Ironically, it is either because we realize that we never treasured the times, the moments, when they were always there for us and left us wishing to all the stars we could turn back those times AGAIN.
or,
We were too happy with them, we enjoyed every single moment, that we get used to the idea of having them around. But, when we finally walked separate lives, we realized that even just a single moment spent without them is like dying stars which slowly leave the sky -- EMPTY.
That's me. EMPTY.
Empty, Broken and all Alone.
I never regret a single day I was with him. We were always happy. Everything is fine, everything's alright because we are together. I never felt alone even if we are not together. He was my strength and I am his inspiration. I felt so secure because I have him. Yes, my life was complete because he filled everything in me with his love and care.
But some just never understand that, they never understand that he is my happiness. They want us apart, doing everything in their power to separate us. They never gave us a chance to prove our love, they never gave him the chance to prove himself worthy to be accepted..
And I love them too, I owe them my life. That's why I chose to let my love go.
And now, I wish I had done the other way around. I wish I had fight for him. As he did fought for me. He did everything for me to be happy.
And I, I just gave him up.
LoL emote2 na pud ku aneh.. w*nks!
^.^ Anyway, the blog below is an email I received today from an officemate. I found this something worth sharing. Perhaps, if I had known this earlier, my past relationship could have worked out better and maybe, just maybe, it might have that happy-ever-after story. If only I could turn back time, it will be perfect. We would be perfect. But this is how we learn from life, the hardest way. I hope
you'll learn something from this also as I do now.
you'll learn something from this also as I do now.
How To Be A Better Couple
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn your partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys - there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnight with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so you're gonna have to do with what your guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what you are. There is more to your partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not your fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but you know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to express yourself better so that your partner understands what you're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When you stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of you enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or just strolling hand-in-hand down walking in the mall or somewhere else. Watch soccer with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts you to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if your gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If you're spending more time with your friends rather than with your partner, it's a warning sign that you're drifting apart.
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, you shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks you to keep your room tidy. There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5. Show ur love.
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume every now and then, even if you have been together for morethan 5 years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that you care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him. So he knows you can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is you love to laugh at. Ask yourself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals.. don't bring up the happy things about you and your ex-guy to your guy, it would just make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that you had with your ex-girl or mention about her in your every other sentence as it would make your gal feel un-happy and she might think that you're saying all this because you are gonna get back with your ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on your jealousy.
All of us go thru spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If you're gonna go through your partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, you know something is WRONG - with YOU! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru the relationship before finally killing it. Trust your partner. Love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep your commitments to each other.
If your partner is standing you up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, you need to talk! If you're in a relationship, make your partner your priority and don't disappoint them if you can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take you to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises you can't keep. If your partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to you, you may just lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly.. When we say "be honest", that means expressing your feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When you're hurt, say so, and when you're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If you can't be honest with your partner, who can you be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
Whew!
note: I actually edited some of it, changed it based on my experience! LoL
